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There Is Still Plenty of Life to Live

By The Artful Woman
Lately, it has been hot, so I decided to do something that would make life a little easier. I cooked a bunch of different meals in the crock pot, put them into containers, and froze them. That way, when the weather is hot, I wouldn't have to do much cooking. Then a flyer came in from the local Mexican market. They had pineapples, plantains, mangoes, watermelon, cucumbers—fresh fruits and vegetables at really good prices. They also had beef shanks. So after the gym, I had my caretaker take me to the store. I already had plenty of food at home. I had meals in the freezer, food in the refrigerator, and everything I needed. I wasn't going to the store because I was running out of food. But when I got there, something happened. I felt happy. The store was colorful and full of fresh food. I could choose one of this, two of that, three of something else. I wasn't limited to whatever quantity happened to come in a package. I could actually look at what I wanted and decide what I wa...
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From Worst-Case to What-If Wonderful?

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By The Artful Woman
Let's be honest, times are tough. The economy's shaky, and it's easy to get caught up in a cycle of worry. Our thoughts are very powerful, and dwelling on negativity can drain our energy and limit our potential. I found myself spiraling down a rabbit hole of "what ifs" – what if I lose everything, where would I live, how would I survive?

Shifting Gears: Suddenly, a powerful realization struck me: Why focus on the worst-case scenario? Instead of fueling our anxieties with negativity, what if we channeled that energy into positive thoughts and possibilities? What if things actually work out? What if I focused on the abundance that could be mine? Why not visualize success, plan for it, and get excited about the future? Instead of "what if I can't afford this," it's "how can I spend the money I will have?"

This is a Mindset Shift We All Need: This change in perspective, from planning to fail to planning to succeed, is a game-changer. It's not about ignoring challenges, but about approaching them with a positive, proactive mindset. By consciously directing our thoughts towards positive possibilities, we fuel the energy and creativity needed to navigate challenges and achieve success.


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