Lately, it has been hot, so I decided to do something that would make life a little easier. I cooked a bunch of different meals in the crock pot, put them into containers, and froze them. That way, when the weather is hot, I wouldn't have to do much cooking. Then a flyer came in from the local Mexican market. They had pineapples, plantains, mangoes, watermelon, cucumbers—fresh fruits and vegetables at really good prices. They also had beef shanks. So after the gym, I had my caretaker take me to the store. I already had plenty of food at home. I had meals in the freezer, food in the refrigerator, and everything I needed. I wasn't going to the store because I was running out of food. But when I got there, something happened. I felt happy. The store was colorful and full of fresh food. I could choose one of this, two of that, three of something else. I wasn't limited to whatever quantity happened to come in a package. I could actually look at what I wanted and decide what I wa...
Sometimes the Setbacks Are a Blessing in Disguise
When you’re rebuilding your life after a life-changing accident, every setback feels like another thing being taken away from you.
For me, the last few weeks have been incredibly frustrating. I was finally starting to feel more confident using my prosthetic leg. I was making progress. I was walking more, getting stronger, and beginning to feel like I was getting a piece of my independence back.
Then came the blood blisters.
My amputated leg developed painful blisters, and suddenly I couldn’t wear my prosthetic. I had no choice but to slow down and give my body time to heal.
At first, it felt like another obstacle. Another delay. Another reminder that recovery doesn’t happen on my timeline.
But something unexpected happened.
My remaining leg and ankle finally seemed to have the time they needed to recover. After my ankle surgery to remove three screws and the plate that had been holding my bone together, I had given it about four weeks before I started increasing my activity again. Looking back, that may not have been enough time for my body to fully heal.
The swelling that had been constant started to go down. My ankle started feeling stronger. The inflammation began to settle.
Maybe those blood blisters were actually my body forcing me to slow down when I needed to.
Sometimes we see setbacks as failures. We think we’re losing progress because we aren’t moving forward as quickly as we want. But sometimes a setback is actually our body protecting us. Sometimes it creates the space we need to heal, rebuild, and come back stronger.
This journey has taught me that resilience isn’t just about pushing through everything. Resilience is also about listening. It’s knowing when to fight, when to rest, and when to trust the process.
At 60, I’m learning how to rebuild my life in a completely different way than I imagined. There are hard days. There are emotional days. There are moments when reality hits me harder than I expect.
But there are also moments like this — moments where I realize that what felt like another setback may have actually been a blessing in disguise.
I’m not where I was before my accident.
I’m becoming someone new.
And I’m continuing my journey of resilience and reinvention, one step at a time.
If you’d like to support my recovery journey, medical needs, and rebuilding process, please consider visiting my GoFundMe. Every share and contribution helps me continue moving forward.
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