Lately, it has been hot, so I decided to do something that would make life a little easier. I cooked a bunch of different meals in the crock pot, put them into containers, and froze them. That way, when the weather is hot, I wouldn't have to do much cooking. Then a flyer came in from the local Mexican market. They had pineapples, plantains, mangoes, watermelon, cucumbers—fresh fruits and vegetables at really good prices. They also had beef shanks. So after the gym, I had my caretaker take me to the store. I already had plenty of food at home. I had meals in the freezer, food in the refrigerator, and everything I needed. I wasn't going to the store because I was running out of food. But when I got there, something happened. I felt happy. The store was colorful and full of fresh food. I could choose one of this, two of that, three of something else. I wasn't limited to whatever quantity happened to come in a package. I could actually look at what I wanted and decide what I wa...
After my stroke, my brain struggled to make connections. Simple tasks became frustrating marathons. It was tempting to give up, to stay stuck in that place of indecision and confusion. But I discovered a powerful truth: clarity comes from action.
By pushing past the discomfort and frustration, by taking action even when the path seemed unclear, I found solutions emerging. Overwhelming problems started to make sense. The "monumental" tasks became manageable steps.
Just like the saying goes, "done is better than perfect." Even without complete clarity, taking action in the direction I wanted to go brought answers and a sense of purpose.
Stuckness is a choice. It's the comfort zone of inaction. But even with an injured brain, progress is possible. By pushing past the mental resistance, the "stop and give up" voices, and taking that next step, clarity emerges. Action is the key to progress, not perfection.
Seven Months After My Stroke

Comments
Post a Comment